The Relationships with People ~ MR 2-01~

I watched the movie whose title was "Miss Doubtfire". This movie had a few important theme. They are relationships, communication, and Love for children. Today, I will talk about these. At the beginning, we have many relationships in the daily life. It affects communication, job, and so on. We can't avoid concerning with people in our lives, so how to have relationships is important. I will talk about three points for making good relationships.



First, we mustn't be selfish. Daniel, who is the main character in the movie, was selfish a little bit at the first time. He did whatever he wanted, so he lost his job and divorced. In the live, there were many irritation, desire, and so on. However, we have to control these emotions. Of course, you opinions are significant, so you can insist them. You have to know that to insist your opinion and get selfish are quiet different. In the movie, Daniel told his opinion for TV program to the director. It was great job, wasn't it? To insist the opinions appear because the person think of important things such as others, futures, and so on. Selfishness is for only yourself. The first dinner time, he would try to make his children stayed his house. That is his selfishness. If you are always selfish, no people respect you. People need some patience in the life.


Second, to be considerate makes good relationships. Daniel discovered his wife's hidden effort in his house keeping life. He noticed what important to think about others is. When he became Miss Doubtfire, he can listen to all of people carefully. All of people become cordial with him. I say not only to treat people kindly, but also to treat sometimes strictly. He scolded his children when they did wrong behaviors. To spoil is never consideration. Consideration is trying to be better for the people.


Finally, we need to keep having feeling of gratitude. The nearer person he or she is, the more we tend to forget to have it. Do you say "Thanks" to your close person, such as family? We feel it is natural that there are some helps from family. Then, we have to notice it is the most important in our life. Maybe most of people can't live without the closer person. Daniel didn't say it to his wife. Although she was always scolded instead of Daniel, he didn't have feeling of gratitude. After that, he noticed he made mistakes. Therefore, don't forget say "Thanks" to others. It makes your making relationships smoother.

Now, I want to tell about communication. You know, it is a kind of relationships, but also important for life. When you can make a good relationships, you have to keep it. The way is communication. When you communicate with others, you have to hear their opinion. Daniel and the producer of TV program talked each other and succeded. If you only insist what you want to say, people don't want to talk with you any more. communication is mutual things. It is made up each other not only you. Then, you can communicate whoever you want if you care of it.


The last important theme is love for children. In the movie, Daniel gave much love to his children. He really loved them, so the children also loved him even after the divorce. In growing up the children, the most important things is love. They don't need outward family. Even if there are many money, food and clothes, they can't stand loneliness. All of the poeple can't live alone even adults, so children need it surely. When children were gaven much love from their parents, they will give it their children. It is good circle, isn't it?

In conclusion, relationships, communications, and love for children are necessary for your lives.We should not be selfish, have consideration, and have feeling of gratitude to others. It you care there points, you can make good relationships in your life. We can't live alone. Therefore, we have to be concerned and communicate with people. You may be helped by many people even if you don't notice. You are so happy. then you have to give the happiness to your children. It will be great tresure for them.


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